So sometimes I feel sort of lonely for the fact that I dont have any girlfriends. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and got out of highschool with no friends. So basically Im in college now with no one. Is anyone else going through something like this? I dont know but I can’t make friends easily I just feel so stupid trying to talk to girls ;( I love my boyfriend and all but I wish I had my group of girlfriends. Any advice girls?

posted about 10 years ago
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OH MY GOD i have the same problem! i am s00 glad that there are other people out there who feel similar!

during high school and middle school i had a few close girl friends, but all our acquaintences and the people we would talk to would be guys

even in my first year of college, i had 1 close girl friend and a BILLION guy friends

i find it easier to be friends with girls who have the same problems as you

my best friend also has trouble getting along with other girls.
boys are just easier to be around… less… DRAMA!

however, now that we are all in separate places, i don’t have anyone around.
even my boyfriend is out of state.

i too miss the days of gossip and group shopping trips!

and confession: i’m nervous for when i move to LA that i won’t have/make any women-friends
i don’t wanna be a boyfriend-leech!!

posted almost 10 years ago

Yea I don’t have any friends either. I tried to have them but I can’t really trust them

posted over 9 years ago

Geez, I thought I was the only one that felt lonely!! I never had a lot of friends, but I always had a close group of friends; we’ve all been friends since middle school!!. After high school , everyone started doing they’re own thing, and I felt lk I was just stuck with no friends…I never really took the time to get to know new people, and I guess now I wish I would have! It’s just hard cuz girls are bithces, and you don’t know who you can trust!! I’ve been w my bf for about 3 years, and at first it was all good, cuz we didn’t want to be away from each other! But now it’s lk I miss beign around the girls…and I’m a weirdo, I just can’t go up to people and start a conversation and make friends….

posted over 9 years ago
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i know what you feel sorta…all my friends are guys and I don’t really have a “group” of girls. I have girls that I talk to…but no real friends…

posted over 9 years ago
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